AI Relationship Advisor
NewThoughtful advice on relationships, dating, friendships. Non-judgmental and supportive.
What is AI Relationship Advisor?
AI Relationship Advisor is a chat that starts with two pickers. First the kind of relationship — Dating / New Relationship, Married, Long Term, Long Distance, Going Through Breakup, Dealing with Ex, Have a Crush, Friendship Issue, Family Relationship, or Unrequited Love — and then, optionally, the main issue: Communication Problems, Trust Issues, Cheating / Betrayal, Constant Fighting, Growing Apart, Parents Don't Approve, Jealousy, Unsure About Future, Commitment Issues, or Can't Move On. Those choices go in with your first message. The advisor asks a question or two before advising, gives both sides of the situation, and is specifically instructed not to tell you whether to stay or leave. Replies are four to six sentences and build on what you said earlier in the same chat. It is not a counsellor. It runs on Google Gemini, needs no account, allows 10 free messages a day, and remembers nothing once you close the page.
How to use
Pick the relationship type (required) and a main issue (optional), then press Start talking to advisor.
Describe one real incident rather than a summary. 'On Sunday she said X, I said Y, we have not spoken since' gives it something to work with; 'we fight a lot' does not.
Answer its questions, then ask for what you need: the other person's likely view, a way to open the next conversation, or the wording of a message.
Copy what helps with the copy button on the reply. The chat is not saved, and every message you send counts toward the day's 10.
What people use AI Relationship Advisor for
The rishta pressure conversation
Parents forwarding profiles every week while you have been with someone for three years. Family Relationship plus Parents Don't Approve, and the question is not 'what do I do' but 'how do I open this with my mother without it becoming a fight'. Rehearsing the first two sentences here is safer than improvising at dinner.
Long distance and unanswered messages
Pune and Toronto, a nine-and-a-half hour gap, and a fight every time a good-morning text goes unanswered until evening. Long Distance plus Communication Problems. It tends to ask what each of you actually expects from a day, which is usually the thing nobody has said out loud.
Cannot move on after a breakup
Going Through Breakup or Dealing with Ex, with Can't Move On. Shared friends, the same college group, their stories still on your feed. The practical questions — mute or block, what to say when friends ask — are the ones it handles well. The grief itself takes time, and it will not pretend otherwise.
Money fights in a marriage
Both working; one wants to save for a flat, the other wants two trips a year; every conversation about money ends badly. Married plus Constant Fighting. Ask for the other person's side explicitly — the reply that shows you their logic is usually more useful than the one that agrees with you.
Examples
You type
Family Relationship, Parents Don't Approve. I am 27 and my parents have started sending rishta profiles every week. I have been with someone for three years who is from a different caste. How do I open this with my mother without it turning into a fight?
You get
It asks a couple of things first — how your mother handles surprises, whether one parent is easier to start with — then suggests an order for the conversation and a few sentences you could actually say. It does not predict how she will react, and it reminds you that you know your family better than it does.
You type
Married, Constant Fighting. We both work. I want to save for a flat, she wants to travel twice a year, and every talk about money ends in a fight. Give me her side too, not just mine.
You get
It lays out both positions without picking one, suggests separating 'where does the money go' from 'who is right', and offers a way to start the next conversation that does not begin with a number. Balanced by design; the decision about the flat stays with the two of you.
Getting better results
- \u2022Pick the type honestly. Dealing with Ex and Going Through Breakup lead to different first questions, and the picker is the only context it has before you type.
- \u2022Quote one exchange: what they said, what you said. A single real incident produces better advice than a month of summary.
- \u2022Ask for the other person's side in so many words. It is trained to stay balanced, but it will go deeper on their perspective if you ask.
- \u2022Leave out full names, phone numbers, and screenshots of other people's private messages. Messages go to Google Gemini to be answered; keep what is not yours to share out of them.
- \u2022If you are being hurt, threatened, or watched, this is the wrong tool. Talk to a person you trust or a helpline first.
Limits and your input
Free use: 10 generations per day. The limit resets each day. No account and no payment is required.
Your input is sent to Google Gemini to generate a response. We do not store your prompts. Avoid entering confidential information.
Output is AI-generated text. Verify facts, dates and figures before relying on them.
Frequently asked questions
Is my conversation private?
There are no accounts, and we do not store your messages — the tool writes nothing to a database. Each message, with the recent chat history, is sent to Google Gemini to generate the reply; we cannot verify how long the provider retains data, so we make no claim about that. Nothing is remembered between visits. Keep other people's full names and identifying details out of your messages where you can.
Can it help with Indian family issues?
Yes — rishta pressure, a partner from a different caste or religion, in-laws in a joint household, a mother who will not discuss it. Pick Family Relationship or Married and, if it fits, Parents Don't Approve. It does not know your family, so say how they usually react to difficult news; the advice is only as specific as what you tell it.
Is this a replacement for couples therapy?
No. This is an AI chat for everyday relationship questions and perspective. It is not therapy, counselling, or a crisis service. If there is physical abuse, threats, stalking, controlling behaviour, or thoughts of self-harm, please contact a real person — someone you trust, a doctor, or a helpline; the chat is instructed to point you toward helplines in those situations rather than continue as usual.
Will it tell me whether to break up?
No, and that is deliberate. It is set to give a balanced view and not to tell you to leave or stay, because it only knows the side you typed. Ask it to lay out what each choice would cost, or what the other person might be feeling, and make the call yourself.
Can it help me write what to say?
Yes. Once it has the situation, ask for an opening line for the conversation with your mother, or a short message to a partner after a fight, or a reply to an ex who has resurfaced. Then rewrite it in your own words — a message that sounds like an app is worse than an awkward one that sounds like you.